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Ambassadors Of Kink
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AOK Founder Goddess Phoenix
Goddes Phoenix: A Legacy of Excellence

About The Founder
Goddess Phoenix is a former professional Dominatrix, pioneering educator, and globally respected figure whose work has redefined standards of excellence in BDSM and kink education for over three decades.
At 22, she survived a near-death experience and a traumatic brain injury that transformed her life and inspired her mission to help others heal. As an NDS (Near Death Survivor), she draws on her journey of resilience to support those reclaiming their power after trauma, whether from sexual assault, harmful experiences in the kink community, or the weight of PTSD.
As a certified Psychodramatist and Role Play Specialist, she has developed trauma-informed approaches that blend somatic awareness, therapeutic role-play, and ethical BDSM practices. Her unique perspective bridges the worlds of psychology, embodiment, and erotic expression, empowering individuals of all genders to embrace healing through conscious kink.
Throughout her career, she has owned and operated one of the Southeast’s largest studios, mentoring countless professionals and enthusiasts in ethical kink practices. She is recognized for her elegant, boundary-expanding Violin Grinder performances, which have graced stages at Fetish Factory and other celebrated venues.
Goddess Phoenix has been featured in premier events such as Exxxotica, Bondage Ball, Fetish Con, and DomCon, where she created the Red Carpet Social and earned Emeritus Status for her decades of service to the community. Her work has appeared in Skin Two, Bizarre Magazine, and Playboy, and she is a featured Dominatrix in the acclaimed documentary Touch by Max Candy. She has also participated in international documentaries exploring the transformative potential of BDSM.
Among her recognitions are:
- Induction into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame and BDSM Hall of Fame
- Lifetime Achievement Award RecipientTitle Holder, Southeast Kink Championship
- Featured Kink Ambassador in Touch
In addition to her professional accolades, she has shared her story and expertise as a speaker at universities and conferences, championing trauma-informed kink education and ethical leadership.
She is currently writing her memoir, From Coma to Crown: A Legacy of Survival, Power, and Healing, and developing the Ambassadors Of Kink book series to preserve and share her knowledge with the next generation of educators.
At 50, she became a figure and fitness competition champion, demonstrating her lifelong commitment to evolution, discipline, and embodied mastery.
As the Founder of Ambassadors Of Kink, Goddess Phoenix continues to lead with compassion, integrity, and a vision of a world where kink is practiced as a conscious path to healing, connection, and empowerment.