Exclusive Membership Awaits

Ambassadors Of Kink

Join a distinguished circle of professionals and advocates dedicated to advancing the art and education of BDSM and kink. Discover a world where your passion meets prestige.

Redefining Kink with Integrity

Join the Movement for Ethical BDSM Leadership

Discover a pioneering community dedicated to transforming the BDSM landscape through education, ethical practices, community, suppport and collaboration among top kink professionals.

Ambassadors of Kink (AOK) is a platform created to honour, celebrate, and uplift the voices of kink and fetish community leaders—past, present, and future. It is a space that brings together educators, practitioners, advocates, and allies in recognition of their work, while also offering opportunities to educate, support, and grow a stronger, more informed community.

At its core, AOK is a tribute to the beauty and power of kink as a space for authenticity, connection, exploration, and healing. Through annual awards, community-building initiatives, and a commitment to inclusivity, AOK exists to spotlight those whose passion, leadership, and lived experience help others find their own power and pleasure.

The driving force behind AOK is the formidable Goddess Phoenix—an internationally respected dominatrix, educator, and advocate with decades of lived and professional experience in kink, fetish, and BDSM communities. With her visionary leadership, deep knowledge, and fierce dedication to empowerment and safety, Goddess Phoenix is building a legacy platform that not only honours those making a difference, but also creates new space for learning, growth, and connection.

AOK is for everyone. Whether you’re an established figure in the kink scene or just beginning to explore, this is a space that welcomes all identities, experiences, and perspectives. Education, safety, advocacy, diversity, and mental health awareness are not just values here—they are priorities.

As AOK continues to grow, so too does its commitment: to honour the work of those who came before, to uplift those doing the work now, and to pave the way for those yet to come.

Our Mission and Vision

AOK’s mission is simple, yet profound: to advance the understanding and practice of ethical kink. We are committed to fostering an elite community where knowledge, respect, compassion, and empowerment are at the core of every interaction. Our members are leaders, educators, and practitioners who dedicate their time and expertise towards making the BDSM community safer, more inclusive, and more informed.

As an invite-only platform, AOK holds its members to the highest standards of professionalism, ethics, and personal integrity. We believe that kink is a powerful tool for self-discovery, growth, and empowerment when practiced responsibly.

Ready to Join?

If you feel you embody the values of AOK and are ready to contribute to this elite community, or already know someone who does, please submit a nomination request and connect with someone who can extend an invitation. Together, we can continue to raise the standards of ethical kink and create a more inclusive, empowering space for all involved.

Nomination Process

Become an AOK Member

Joining the Ambassadors of Kink is a prestigious opportunity reserved for those who have demonstrated exceptional dedication to the BDSM community. Our nomination process is designed to ensure that every member aligns with our core values of ethical leadership and education. To be considered for membership, nominees must answer a series of questions that delve into their contributions to the community, their adherence to ethical standards, and their vision for the future of kink. This process not only highlights their achievements but also their commitment to fostering a respectful and inclusive environment. By maintaining a rigorous selection process, AOK ensures that its members are leaders who embody the principles of consent, respect, and mutual understanding.

Become a Leader in Ethical Kink

What Our Members Say

“Joining AOK has been transformative for my career and personal growth. The connections I’ve made and the knowledge I’ve gained have been invaluable.”

Dominatrix Jane

“AOK has provided me with a platform to share my expertise and learn from the best in the industry. It’s a community that truly values ethical practices and continuous learning.”

Master Alex

“Being part of AOK has elevated my professional standing and allowed me to contribute to meaningful discussions on ethical kink. It’s a privilege to be among such esteemed professionals.”

Mistress Ruby

Exclusive Membership Benefits

Access to Elite Network

Comprehensive Educational Resources

Comprehensive Educational Resources

Collaborative Community Support

Leadership Development Opportunities

Ethical Practice Advocacy

Global Influence and Recognition

Cutting-edge Workshops and Training

Personal and Professional Growth

Mentorship from Industry Icons

Innovative Discussions and Panels

Resource Hub for Kink Enthusiasts

Platform for Amplifying Voices

Commitment to Inclusivity

Continuous Learning Environment

Empowerment through Knowledge

Join the Movement

If you are passionate about advancing the standards of ethical kink and wish to be part of an elite community, we invite you to submit a nomination request. Connect with someone who can extend an invitation to join the Ambassadors of Kink. Together, we can shape the future of the BDSM community by promoting education, consent, and inclusivity. Don’t miss the opportunity to be part of a network that values leadership and integrity in the kink world.

Feel free to email us for detailed information about membership opportunities and upcoming events.